Dear Young Queen,
I know often times it seems like the weight of the world is on our shoulders. We have constant battles with ourselves about who we are and who we want to be. We’re young, trying to live, & find ourselves all in one chapter. We’re rebellious to the thoughts of anyone trying to control us or make us less than who we are. We are defensive with our hearts. We often feel love doesn’t exists anymore or we have to sell ourselves short to please the ones we love.
Well I’m here to tell you something.. YOUR CROWN DOESN’T COME OFF! It may tilt or need to be repositioned but it DOESN’T come off. You don’t have to settle for less than you deserve. You don’t have to wake up feeling hopeless or alone. We are QUEENS who are in this together. We are meant to rule the world. Our power as women is stronger than any force that come against us. You don’t have to go out looking for love, open your mind & heart to love yourself. Be confident in who you are and where you’re going. Don’t spend your days longing for something that left a long time ago. Trust in God and yourself to mend your broken heart. People won’t always see you for who you are but sometimes for what you have. Don’t let anyone take advantage of your heart.
Love even when it hurts. Don’t let the actions of others stop you from having a loving, caring heart.
You’re crown does not come off for the negativity, hurt, lies, or battles you may face. Face your fears with your head held high and your crown sitting pretty. You are the Queen so act like one. The Queen doesn’t come off her throne to address a peasant throwing stones. Playing it cool does not make you a fool.
I know the struggle of being young and being a mother. The confusing of feeling like your not doing enough. Just know you’re doing everything right and even if you’re not you’ll figure it out. Don’t get discouraged by seeing other moms who “look” like they have it all together, because it reality we’re all losing our shit! Keep striving to be your best self for you and your family.
Ask yourself, what areas of your life can use improvement? How can you change your current situation? Take baby steps if you need to. Pa renting doesn’t come with a blueprint. You learn from experiences. Always remember, YOUR CROWN DOESN’T COME OFF!